Tuesday, December 22, 2009
He's Here!!
Sunday, November 29, 2009
35.5
I am tired, uncomfortable and swollen. I am over this for real.
Okay so... big things:
1. This baby does have a name, and no, it is not a secret. I can't believe I haven't posted it... I had good intentions. (I was going to introduce him with a beautiful 4D picture of his sweet face, but then he didn't exactly cooperate, and I forgot.) We are naming him Joseph Porter Chappell. Both are family names. There were just too many options out there, so we decided family was the way to go (and Justin didn't want him named Edward Cullen Chappell...). Joseph was my great-grandfather's name and also Justin's grandfather's name. Porter was my great uncle who raised my Grandmother Frances (when Joseph died). We are going to call him Porter. I have only known one other Porter in my life (a good friend in college), and he is a pretty good guy, so I feel safe in this choice. We have gotten in the habit of calling him JoPo. Justin says that he is going to be the best running back in the SEC, and "Run JoPo Run" is a Nike campaign waiting to happen. I do hope he isn't too disappointed when the child inherits my athletic prowess... Anyway, we must stop calling him JoPo pronto...it just rolls off the tongue...
2. I had my last day at work on November 11. It couldn't have come soon enough. I have been super-busy trying to get everything done before the baby comes. I run out of steam quickly, so this has not been easy. Who knew how long it would take to wash all those tiny clothes?! And we still have not finished his room. And I have been trying to get all the Christmas presents bought and wrapped... my list is long, people. Please pray that I get it all done. I am not very good at sitting and waiting; I like a plan. And a firm date and time. And apparently that is not how childbirth works, so I get frustrated easily. I am a joy to be around...
3. Showers!! I have had several showers in different cities!! I really have felt so loved by everyone involved... my mother's friends, friends who drove HOURS to see me (one days after giving birth herself), perfect menus, no details overlooked... It has been overwhelming, to say the least. I was going to post separately about each one, but that would take forever, and I am still missing some pictures (why I can't be trusted to take them on my camera is beyond me....) These pictures are backwards chronologically, which drives me nuts, but whatever...
I think that is it for today... I have to sing the praises of my sweet husband, who has taken over all the household duties and has listened to me complain non-stop with little irritation on his part. He did tell me to suck it up yesterday...that I only had a maximum of 4 weeks left, and couldn't I just keep it to myself for 10 minutes???? But he said that after listening to me grunt with every step all the way around the mall for hours... I wish I could keep it to myself, but it just comes out. Which is another good reason for me to NOT blog right now!! Who wants to read this drivel... I'll update when I have something nice to say. :)
And God bless single mothers. I think about them all the time.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Imagine That
What better time to get a 4D ultrasound?
Too bad our baby is already completely defiant.
First attempt (yesterday 7:30 a.m.), he was balled up. All we could see was his spinal cord and back of his head. Zero pictures.
Second attempt (yesterday, 3:00 p.m.), this is what we got:
Monday, October 12, 2009
Thirty, Flirty & Thriving...
I wanted to make this birthday super special for him because:
1. He's 30.
2. He has put up with a lot of crap from me. I have not enjoyed pregnancy, nor do I know the meaning of the phrase "suffer in silence." The man is a saint.
I saved and saved all my piddly allowance for months so I could buy him a super cool, 30-worthy, adult present.
Happy Birthday!
In honor of his special day, I thought I'd share something a bit personal that I know will mean a lot to him.
Once upon a time Kristen encouraged me to make a list of all the qualities I would want in a husband. We talked a lot about our "hot Christian husbands," but we didn't know for sure what we really wanted them to be like. Since there were zero prospects at the ripe old age of 22, my list was lofty and ambitious. And long! And it had to be revised several times because, at that point in life, I cared a lot about non-character attributes. I believe "owns a car, owns a house, has a 401k" were high priorities...
I really put a lot of time and energy into the list, and of course, forgot all about it six months later (when Mr. Car, House, 401k asked me out--and he turned out to be a total idiot...). I found it a couple years ago when we moved here and was absolutely floored when I read it. My Justin is my list in the flesh. A totally hypothetical wish list of attributes stands beside me everyday, and I am so blessed to be his wife. I keep the list in my jewelry drawer, so I see it often. And every time I take a second to glance it over, I thank God for the person that Justin is, and that he chose me.
Here's the list... Don't laugh {remember that it's old--And if you get bored reading, just skip on...it's for Justin anyway}.
- Spiritual leader who challenges me in my walk with Christ
- Ambitious and focused with direction
- Wise & mature
- Athletic
- Taller than me {imagine that...}
- Beautiful...eyes...
- Pure
- Funny
- Not afraid to cry before the Lord
- Likes me to sit in his lap
- Friends with my friends
- Honors me in words and actions
- Uplifting
- Genuine and real--no secrets
- I can be myself around him
- God focused
- Leader in the church
- Likes to play outside--even in the rain
- Not controlling or selfish
- Fun and spontaneous
- Likes to sing loud
- Plays an instrument {J can play a couple chords on the guitar...that counts?}
- Liked and admired by others
- Has a good relationship with his parents and siblings
- Intelligent, smart, stimulating
- Good with money
- Comforting
- Will scratch my head
- Likes to snuggle while watching movies, especially scary ones
- Loves me unconditionally without reservation
- Accepts my faults and helps me to improve
- Desires God's will more than anything
- Lets me shop
- Thinks I am the most beautiful woman in the world
- Can fix cars and household appliances
- Wants to travel
- Appreciates the "finer things in life" {I am pretty sure I meant good food}
- Gentle
- Has manners
- A servant
- Thoughtful
- Patient and kind
- Trustworthy
- Knows how to listen
- Stable and secure {maybe this was the car, house, 401k boiled down?}
- Decisive
- Unselfish
- Affirming
- Dependable
- Lets me stay home with the kids
- Sensitive, compassionate, affectionate
- Respectful and self-controlled
- Giving
- Attentive to the needs of others
- Makes decisions in our best interest
- Can cook
Happy Birthday to you, my Ju-C. I hope this year is our best yet. I love you more than anything!
We had a little party this weekend...more pictures coming!
Friday, October 9, 2009
Shop Till You Drop... Literally.
We left Fairhope at 7:30 a.m. on Saturday morning. We stopped at Chick-fil-A for breakfast, and made it to Birmingham just in time to eat lunch at the new O'Carr's in Cahaba Heights. YUM-O!!! (most of the weekend revolved around food...) Lauren had never had their chicken salad before. Poor Lauren. She is now just as sad as I am that there is no O'Carr's here.




We woke up early on Sunday morning, ate at the hotel and got ready for more shopping before Lindsey's shower.
Lucy let me fix her hair. A mini-me! Isn't it beautiful? I do love a good poof.




Please notice that Lucy took down her poof. What a stick in the mud.

Thursday, October 8, 2009
Say Hello to My Little Friend!
I even took off the grapevine wreath and set it to the side for maximum glass cleanliness.
I was adjusting the bow when I discovered that a pesky little lizard has made himself at home within the loops.
I screamed and ran inside.
And repeatedly tapped on the glass to make him go away. He didn't.
An hour later, here he is chilling in my wreath. Sorry the picture quality is poor... I wasn't willing to venture outside to take a good one...
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Delinquent...
Anyway, I found this little survey on my friend Betsy's blog, and thought I would use it to help catch up. And after this, I promise to be better. I am feeling MUCH better, so I really have no excuse.


I'll get some pictures of the nursery up when it is done. We (and of course I mean Justin) are still painting.
Peace out.
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
So I DID Have a Birthday...
So I had one.
And I feel old. 29 is knocking on 30's door, people.
Justin left for his Mexico trip on the big day, so I was flying solo. He made arrangements for me to have a birthday massage at the place downtown. I ate lunch with the Carrigans and Nebrigs at Panini Pete's, and headed to the salon. They were running behind so I decided to get all my hair cut off while I waited. I was too hot with all that hair anyway. The funny thing is that when I went to pick Justin up he didn't notice that I had no hair for at least 15 minutes...
Anyway, the girls and I went out for a nice birthday dinner at Master Joe's, a new sushi restaurant downtown. It is soooo yummy!! They have great special rolls. We had the best time EVER.

Lyndsay, me & Lisa (see new hair!)

Everybody (minus Lucy, Lauren and Laurie who had better things to do--We missed you!!)

Kind of like when I lived in the Brown House with Kristen, Kelly and Katie. I was KEmily.
But that is neither here nor there.
Happy Birthday to me!
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Princess or Super Hero???
Here are their picks:

I was nearly positive this kid was of the female variety. I even asked the sonographer if she was sure.
But kid wasn't really shy about flashing his goods. It was quite obvious.
I guess I should get used to the whole flashing thing... I haven't met a male yet who wasn't obsessed with genitalia... including Justin, who likes to flash his "wing dog" every chance he gets. (Thanks Lori & Jeb for that fabulous name, which we have adopted in our house).
I made a blueberry buckle (in the v.cute dish J gave me for my birthday). Here is Justin with blueberry all in his teeth:
P.S. I did not cry or carry on in any way. I am making remarkable progress.
Monday, July 13, 2009
Bienvenue a l'hotel Chappell
Our friends Kris & Mitch came to see us from St. Louis!! We hadn't seen them in so very long, and it was great to catch up a bit. Kelly McJ hitched a ride with them, and we all got to eat together at Felix's. I will use any excuse to eat there... I love their she-crab soup more than words can say. We made reservations for a private dining room, which I love to do when going there. It is so nice to be able to hear everyone and get to visit properly.
Unfortunately, nausea+sun+hour-long car ride=one sick Emily. I had to miss the cookout at the Carrigan's pier, but we made it just in time for the fireworks. Apparently, the city of Fairhope is going through some cost containment in the fireworks department. It was a total bust, and I was mad that I dragged myself down there for them. I kept waiting and waiting for the "finale," and it never happened. Darn this financial crisis.
Okay... on to last week... I got a text from Taylor asking if she could spend the night with me on Wednesday! Of course!! She was driving through on her way to New Orleans to visit family. And then Lindsey decided she would come too (which I still can't believe because it was so last minute, and Linds is just not last minute...)!! I was so very happy to see my college BFFs. I hated to miss our girls weekend in May, but this was the next best thing. We had a lovely lunch at the BayBreeze Cafe, and then Tay had to leave, which was very sad.
Saturday night we celebrated Jonathan's 30th birthday with a fiesta at the pier. It was so fun! I can't believe we are all getting to 30. It just doesn't seem possible.
Yesterday we had a send-off lunch for the Mexico mission trip that leaves on Saturday. I am so jealous that Justin is getting to go, and I have to stay home. The kids are all so excited, and I cannot imagine a better group of youth to go with--they are going to have a blast. I hope that Justin takes my threat seriously and comes home with some Mexican pottery in his suitcase.
And finally, Oliver is tired of all the company and events. He is ready to take a nap without interruption. His little eyes look so sleepy.